They weren't stylish.
Happiness is a way of Life
Happiness is a state of mind. So, think positive, think happy and everyday becomes a day to live for.
Friday, September 25, 2026
The Godrej Almirah - Keeper of an Indian Family's Memories
They weren't stylish.
Thursday, September 17, 2026
Vishwanath & Sons – So Much More Than an Age-Gap Romance
I watched Vishwanath and Sons on Netflix, and I was honestly mildly surprised by just how much I enjoyed it.
I had seen quite a few reviews online criticizing the age difference between the hero and heroine, with comments about how we need to stop making movies that romanticize relationships like this. So I was a little hesitant to watch it. But since I am a huge fan of Suriya, I decided to give it a chance — and I am so glad I did.
SPOILER WARNING: There may be spoilers ahead, so proceed with caution!
Yes, the age difference is definitely a part of the story, and I understand why it has generated discussion. But we have also seen age-gap relationships explored in movies like Lamhe, Cheeni Kum, Premam, and others. For me, though, this movie had so much more to offer than just that one aspect of the story.
What stood out the most were the kickass dialogues, excellent characterization, perfect casting, strong performances, and some surprisingly thoughtful life lessons.
Let me start with the dialogues because they absolutely killed it in that department. There were so many lines that made me stop and think. A few that stayed with me — without giving away too much of the story — were:
- If something fails, buying a new one should not be the first option; it should be the last. Money teaches you how to buy things, but difficulties teach you how to live life.
- People don't drift apart because of fights. They drift apart because they don't know how to talk to each other after one.
- You should not stop trying until you win. But once you have won, you don't have to keep talking about it.
- It is okay to sacrifice anything for your dream, but it is not okay to sacrifice your dream for someone else.
There were many more moments like these throughout the movie. The writing manages to be entertaining while occasionally making you stop and reflect on relationships, family, ambition, forgiveness, and life itself.
Another huge strength of the movie is its characters. There are so many different personalities and perspectives woven into the story: the man who wants to have a child through surrogacy but doesn't want marriage; the young woman who agrees to become a surrogate but unexpectedly develops feelings for the baby's father despite her carefree, almost detached attitude toward life; the mother who has endured so much and yet still has an enormous capacity for love; the second wife and sister who carry their own feelings of being wronged and left out; the lawyer friend who can be hilarious one minute and completely serious the next; and the parents whose prejudices ultimately cost them their daughter.
WOW. Such a fascinating mix of characters.
Almost every character brings something different to the story, and many of them make you look at situations from a perspective you might not have considered before.
The casting deserves a special mention too. The casting director really seems to have found the right person for every role, and the actors give their characters everything they have. Radhika, in particular, absolutely shines as the mother. She brings so much warmth, pain, strength, and affection to the role. Such a beautiful performance.
I also thought the ending was handled very well.
Instead of simply wrapping everything up into a neat romantic ending, she is given the opportunity to study, grow, discover who she is, and then decide what she truly wants from the relationship. I loved that.
There is also a conversation where he points out that the age difference may not seem like a big deal right now, but twenty years later she could be in the prime of her life, wanting to travel and experience things while he may no longer be physically able to keep up with her. I thought that was a very mature and realistic way of addressing the age gap rather than pretending it doesn't exist.
Could certain things have been left out? Sure.
For example, the scenes showing the hero hooking up with women through an app weren't exactly necessary for me. But did they take away from the movie? Not really. In a way, they simply showed him as a normal adult with normal emotional and physical needs rather than trying to portray him as some unrealistically perfect hero.
Overall, I really loved this movie.
The dialogues, direction, acting, characterization, and casting were all excellent. There is humor, family drama, romance, emotional baggage, difficult relationships, and plenty of little observations about life scattered throughout the story.
I would highly recommend it and give it a 9/10.
Why not a full 10/10? The editing could have been a little crisper, and I could definitely have done without a few of the fight sequences. But then again, I suppose we need the fights and songs to complete the full Indian-movie experience! 😄 And honestly, even the songs were pretty good.
If the age-gap discussion has made you hesitant to watch the movie, I would still say give it a chance and judge the story as a whole. There is much more going on here than just the romance.
Enjoy watching — and if you have already seen it, let me know what you thought in the comments!
Tuesday, July 07, 2026
A Cup of Magic Under the Full Moon
I just finished reading *The Full Moon Coffee Shop* by Mai Mochizuki, translated from Japanese by Jesse Kirkwood, and I absolutely loved it.
The book centers around a magical coffee shop that appears on full moon nights, run by talking cats who seem to know exactly who needs a little guidance. Through this whimsical setup, the author gently brings the characters’ inner thoughts, fears, and desires to the surface. What I loved most is that the characters already seem to know what they want, or what they need to do, but they cannot quite see it clearly or accept it yet. The coffee shop, with its cats, astrology, and beautifully described food and drinks, becomes a soft and magical space where they are able to understand themselves better.
The book also beautifully explores how we are all connected in one way or another. It shows how even small changes can create a big impact in our lives. Without giving away too much of the plot, there is one storyline about a character who moves from a lovely apartment into a rather dingy one and misses the comfort and niceties of the old place. Later, in the epilogue, the author shows how this person begins to spruce up the new apartment with small, thoughtful touches, slowly making it feel like home. I really loved that idea — that sometimes we cannot immediately change everything about our circumstances, but we can still bring beauty, comfort, and intention into the life we already have.
There are many gentle but meaningful themes throughout the book: reflecting on the past, finding the courage to face the future, standing up for yourself, allowing second chances, and rethinking relationships with more compassion. The descriptions of the food and beverages served in the café are absolutely mouthwatering, and the references to music and landmarks in Kyoto add such a lovely atmosphere.
At its heart, this book is about the human side of us: love, kindness, compassion, connection, and the relationships that shape our lives. It is magical without being overly complicated, thoughtful without being heavy, and emotional without feeling forced. The writing is crisp, the story moves quickly, and the whole book feels deeply satisfying.
Overall, *The Full Moon Coffee Shop* was a warm, charming, and beautifully written read. It left me with that cozy feeling of wanting to slow down, notice the small joys, and maybe make myself a very special cup of coffee.
Sunday, January 25, 2026
Can This Love Be Translated - Korean Drama
I finished Can This Love Be Translated today. I had been anticipating this drama for a while and ended up watching it at a pretty fast pace. It stars Kim Seon-ho and Go Youn-jung in the lead roles.
The highlights for me were:
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Visuals — the locations, cinematography, and lighting were all stunning. It’s easily one of the most visually satisfying dramas I’ve watched in recent times.
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Cast — the male lead is one of my favorite actors, the leads have great chemistry, and the supporting cast is excellent as well.
This is not your standard rom-com. The drama dives into heavier themes such as childhood trauma, personality disorders, loss of privacy as a celebrity, and relationships between introverted individuals. The characters felt raw, vulnerable, and mature. Some scenes reminded me of It’s Okay to Not Be Okay—not in storyline, but in the honest, unfiltered portrayal of emotions and inner struggles.
The show is definitely a slow burn. It unfolds through glances, subtle touches, quiet understanding, and gradual revelations. The performances by both lead actors were exceptional, especially in moments where they come to realizations about themselves—the wonder, acceptance, and emotional clarity were beautifully portrayed. I also found it fascinating how thoughtfully the interpreter’s role was depicted and how it created a deeper layer of connection and understanding between the leads.
The “serial within a serial” concept was another fun element. Watching the behind-the-scenes aspects—the camera setups, location challenges, and production dynamics—felt like getting a glimpse into the making of a drama itself. The portrayal of celebrity culture, fan followings, promo events, and industry networking added an interesting meta layer to the story.
I want to end my review with a line that truly stayed with me. The interpreter’s mentor says:
“There are as many languages on this earth as there are humans. Each individual has their own language—you just need to understand it.”
That thought made a huge impact on me. It reminded me to slow down, listen more carefully, and really hear what people are trying to say.
For me, this drama is a 10/10. It’s not a run-of-the-mill watch, but it’s absolutely worth your time. Beautifully made and deeply felt.
If you’ve watched it, I’d love to know what you thought.
Sunday, January 05, 2025
Love Scout - The new Ongoing Korean Drama
Wednesday, October 11, 2023
Rescuing my plants from my own mistakes
Happy Fall. Finally we have been having some cooler temps in Texas and I am for one enjoying it. Fall is my most favorite time of the year for sure. Lately I have jumped on the Houseplant bandwagon. It is more popular with the milleneals and Gen Z per most articles I have read - and although I am neither, I am still enjoying this whole houseplants idea except for Fungus Gnats (Which is a story for another time).
Although I have had some house plants over the years, I had not managed to keep them alive and I always thought I did not have the green thumb. But my friend M aka Maneesha dissuaded my beliefs and gave me a few plants that she had propagated for me to try out and my journed started then with a small spider plant and a baby monsterra. Now I have over 40 Plants in my house and it warms my heart.
Today's post is about rescuing three of my plants from my own mistakes - Overwatering and choosing a bigger pot than the plant needs. Over a time period of growing plants I have learnt a few things. Overwatering is the main aspect of it - I killed my plants mostly by overwatering. Again thanks to Maneesha - now I own a moisture meter and when I doubt I double check before I water the plants and I can happily say that most of my plants are doing well now. Keyword being Most - some are still struggling due to my watering zeal.
Second mistake that I was doing was choosing a pot that was bigger than what the plant needed. Most indoor houseplants like to be compact and root bound is what I have figured out. Also bigger pots means more soil and more water retention thus causing root rots.
For all the three plants that I rescued today - I did the following pot mix with whatever ingredients I had. I did not have all the things that are mentioend by different plant youtubers.
2 Parts Orchid Bark (this is what I had on hand) 2 Parts Perlite 2 Parts Cactus soil mix (I used this as I did not have compost or coco chips or peat moss and I felt like this would be less dense than the regular potting soil mix) 1/2 Part of coarse sand (this was just regular sand I had at home - it is medium coarse I would say)
You could obviously do more ore less of any of these and use other ingredients as you have them. If you search Youtube for aroid soil mixes there are gazillion videos out there.
1. Pachira Aquatica or Chinese Money Plant This plant of mine was doing really good and I was trying very hard not to overwater it. But what I had not realized was that it was a nursery pot within a ceramic pot and when I waterd more, the extra water was sitting inside the ceramic pot keeping the bottom part of nursery pot mosit and thus causing root rot. As I removed the plant fro pot, I could easily see two of the plants had root rot (it was five plants braided together) and then just broke off easily. So I removed those, checked the other three to make sure they were okay and then repotted it in the same pot as the pot size for now seemed okay (until next spring) with my new soil mix. I was happy to see that water drained quickly and now I will take it out of the outer pot and then water it to make sure it is drained fully before putting it back in the ceramic pot.
2. Anthurium I had bought this plant from walmart and it was in a very tiny nursery pot and I felt like it was growing quite a bit, so I ended up repotting it in a new pot which in retrospect I know was too large for this. And being a bit ignorant about anthurium and what kind of soil mix it likes, I just used regular indoor potting soil which was too dense and retained a lot of water causing root rot. You can see from pictures below that there were two plants in that anthurium plant and I lost one to root rot. I am hoping that the other one will survie well with the new potting mix. So it is very critical to use a good pot size for the plants.
3. Kalanchoe This beautiful flower plant was gifted to me by my cousin, but we were out of country for almost 10 days and this plant had completely withered without water. I tried to revive it by overwatering - SIGH and it was just not doing good. Leaves completely dropped and then today I noticed that one of the stems (it had 3 stems) was looking really black and I immediatly realized it was root rot and that stem was dying. Again I removed all the excess soil from the roots and then repotted it with the above mix. I also recently learned that Kalanchoe is a succulent and it retains a lot of water in its stems. So I am hoping with this soil mix it will come back and thrive. Crossing my fingers. I forgot to take pics of this plant..sorry.
Here are all the three pots that I repotted today.
I am writing a blog post after a long time. Thanks for stopping by and taking time to read. Any thoughts and comments or suggestions, please feel free to drop a comment for me.
Happy Planting folks......
Thursday, October 07, 2021
My Mister Korean Drama
"Once you overcome the one-inch tall barrier of subtitles, you will be introduced to so many more amazing films." - Director Bong Joon-ho said in his award acceptance speech. This totally sums up my experience with Korean Drama's. So thankful for Netflix in bringing these dramas for my viewing pleasure.
If I love a movie or a drama - I tend to look up people associated with it - actors, directors, cinematographers etc and see other projects from them. So that is how I ended up with the serial "My Mister". I saw this amazing actress IU aka Lee Ji-eun in Hotel Del Luna and was so impressed by her. I will admit that it took me a few tries to see the first Episode of My Mister as I was seeing more of the Romance Dramas. But boy oh boy, after that first episode, I was hooked really bad and binge watched the serial.
(Picture Courtesy - NETFLIX)This drama made me feel sad, hopeful, grateful and much more. You will fall in love with each of the characters, their relationships, conflicts and dynamics. The constant struggle to maintain a balance in life and the journey to find the inner peace and strength. Too much emotions are running through my head and I will try my level best to put it across as best as I can.
The director has handled the relationship of the leads so well. He has depicted how a higher level of human relationship can exist between a man and woman with almost 2 decades of age difference without it being romantic. Lee Sun-kyun and Lee Ji-eun who play Park Dong-hoon and Lee Ji-an in the series have just done an outstanding job. Just like Ji-an's grandmother says - "If you think about it, all relationships are amazing and precious". That is exactly what this is. The raw-ness of humanity and how two people got saved because of each other is shown very well.
The bond between the brothers, the bickering, the affection and the understanding. Neighborhood, family, friendship and even the morning soccer club. It is all relevant and needed.
I had to look up "Jeong" because of this drama - one of Korean Cultural Values. As that is what this Drama taught me. Although jeong is better felt than put into words, the best way to describe it is a deep connection and emotional bond that builds over time and through shared experiences with other people, places, or things.
I am sure I can say so much more about this drama series. But maybe another time. For now, I will let you see it and please share your thoughts and comments on it.
Happy Thursday!!
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